Does he not like me anymore? Are his parents pressuring him? Is he wrestling with his feelings? Please read!!!?

Well, this guy and I started becoming friends about a month ago. We really hit it off and he sent me a secret admirer type thing for Valentine's Day and I figured out it was him. We went to a dance together and were like a total couple at the dance...but at the dance he said that in order to be allowed to go to the dance with me, his parents said he isn't allowed to date for a while. Well it's been a couple weeks since then and we went to a school event as friends and I asked him for a friendly hug goodbye and then he walked me out to my parents car. And a few days before he had texted me and said he thought we only had a few things in common and we needed to get to know each other and that he didn't want to lead me on....that he thought we could be more than friends but not yet and that if we became something more now it wouldn't last...he said he wasn't trying to be mean or anything and he felt that I was trying to make it something more sometimes and he said that makes him uncomfortable...like when we went out as friends I was really smiling at him and he said it was making him uncomfortable...and he wants me to respect that we are just friends...I cried over that...but he was so excited to go to the dance with me...I think his parents are pressuring him and he is wrestling with his feelings. Well now we don't text near as much and I know sometimes he just doesn't text me back...and sometimes we'll see each other and I'll smile at him but he won't do anything back...I mean when we are at a band rehearsal together and we have time he will talk to me beforehand but I always have to go up to him...I was so happy when we were all lovey dovey and now I'm a little depressed...what should I do? Do you think he is just wrestling with his feelings? He was so sweet with the secret admirer thing and with the dance...he is still nice but it's just different....