If you looking to marry, what qualities are important to you in a spouse. What are the deal makers and the dea?

To make a marriage work, you MUST have compatibility. Meaning you must have the same or very close views on family, children, religion, money (spending and saving), career, lifestyle (where and how to live). You have to know all the others bad habits and decide if you can live with them FOREVER. If any of those do not line up well, that's a deal breaker. PLUS:You have to find someone with that "chemistry" that makes you not want to ever be without them again. AND then, if you find all that, it is still the hardest thing you will ever do.